Sometimes "Healing" Is Self Abandoning

Every time someone asks a health question on Facebook, people rush into the comments saying things like, *“You need more healthy fats!”* or *“Get rid of the seed oils!”* or *“Cut out this food, cut out that one.”*

The problem? I almost never see those people ask a single question before they start giving advice.

I see it constantly — in Facebook ads, from doctors, nutritionists, and functional medicine folks — over and over again. Which tells me something very important: those people aren’t assessing *the human.* They’re handing out the same plan to everyone. The same “fix.” The same “root cause.”

But if you actually understand the body, you know that can be completely wrong.

If someone has a **damp constitution**, adding more “healthy fats” is actually *contrary* to their body’s structure.

If someone’s cells are **cold and sluggish**, adding more fats will only slow them further.

If someone has a **deficient spleen**, and they’re told to “just eat more fruit,” “have smoothies,” or “detox,” they’ll actually weaken their spleen even more.

This has become a huge problem.

We’ve created a culture of well-trained — but completely amateur — experts who are just regurgitating mainstream “what-not-to-do” advice.

I just saw someone say, “For memory loss, take them off statins.”

Now, I’m not a fan of statins either, but that’s actually questionable advice. There’s a direct correlation between restricted blood flow and brain deterioration — and sometimes, that narrowing is due to **plaque in the arteries.** In those cases, statins *may* help improve flow.

Again, I’m not saying everyone with memory loss should take statins — but this is why **individual assessment is absolutely paramount.**

This notion that there’s *one path for everyone* is not only ridiculous — it’s negligent.

And honestly, as consumers, you should be getting tired of it.

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve spoken to who’ve been handed the same one-size-fits-all plan that didn’t work for them — and then turned around and fell for the *next* ad promising the exact same thing.

At some point, you’ve got to get wise to the fact that what you actually need is someone who pays attention — not just to your *problem*, but to *you.*

Because these practitioners are experts at describing your pain:

They’ll tell you how tired you are.

How much weight you’ve gained.

How frustrating it feels to age so fast.

And then they’ll say, *“You just need to do this one thing.”*

That’s not care — that’s marketing.

The truth is, for every condition, there are at least ten different **patterns** that can create the same symptoms.

The **pattern** is what matters. The symptom is just the messenger.

I’ve sat with people who barely had symptoms at all — yet their internal patterns showed massive dysfunction brewing beneath the surface. By the time symptoms arrive, there’s already something much deeper happening.

So please — stop falling for it.

There are billions of dollars being spent every year on “natural health,” and I’d estimate three-quarters of it goes to this same nonsense — people being shoved through someone’s protocol machine.

There’s so much more to this.

If you want to have an honest, human-to-human conversation that’s actually about *you* — not about someone’s prepackaged plan — I offer **free clarity calls.**

I’ll tell you what I see and why it’s happening. If you want to work with me, great. If not, that’s fine too.

But you deserve better than the one-size-fits-all advice that’s being sold as “healing.”